Welcome to the ONLY comprehensive online sex dictionary curated with humor, love, and passion by a real life sexuality educator!
So I've had this idea running around in my pretty little head for quite some time.....my entry into sex education back in 2002 could have been so much easier if there was one central place to get quick, accurate information on sex terms.
There is a TON of inaccurate and downright shitty information on the web. In fact, it is kind of a pet peeve of mine. I figure that I should put my money where my pervy mouth is (instead of just bitching about it) and produce a fabulous and glorious sex term glossary just for you.
Since the final site I envision creating is a ginormous task, consider it to be a work in progress. I will make every attempt to make sure the content is correct, but I am definitely not perfect. If you see a term that is not up to date, wrong, or want me to include a sex term you don't see listed, please email me at firstname.lastname@example.org.
Before you bombard me with emails, please give it some time because, like I said, this is a huge list and it takes both time and love to create. I'm putting up terms in mostly alphabetical order.
But hold on to your hats because I haven't got to the best part yet!
In addition to the definition of the sex term, I will give you an example of its common usage. You will be able to get a good understanding of the word by reading how I use the terms as a professional sex educator. In some instances, I might even include a video snippet or picture. This is some pretty awesome stuff, right?
Right about now, you might be thinking to yourself, "Who in the hell is this person?"
My name is Catherine Toyooka and I am the founder of Catherine Coaches. I'm based in the San Francisco Bay Area, and I have been providing some pretty amazing sexuality education since 2002. As a seasoned educator, you may know me as a multiple award-winning sex blogger, a sexuality speaker and educator, a dating and sex coach, or media consultant.
I hope you find this glossary to be educational, informative, and entertaining. My goal is to make the directory as accessible and accurate as possible without it being too pornographic, dry, researchy, or medical like.
***A note about language***
Gender is much more than the traditional binary of male/female. Most of my writing defaults towards using male/female, however, I will often use or switch between different terms.
Men = male, male bodied, penis owner, male identified, biologically born male
Women = female, female bodied, vulva/vagina owner, female identified, biologically born female
My professional and personal disclosure is that I am very connected to the homosexual/gay community. This glossary will include a lot of gay terminology and how it is commonly used in the community.
My one request is that you DO NOT STEAL my content. I'm serious about this! I have a team of lawyers who take very good care of me and are vigilant in helping me put the kibosh on content thieves. If you would like to use my content in the work that you do, then please do me a solid and give me credit. Better yet, link back to me.
Here are some places you might have seen me on the internet.
See, I'm actually pretty legitimate.